Virgos dream big, so you always feel like they are working non-stop on everything.
But once they meet true love, they can become very small, so small that they turn themselves into the other person’s dream.
“Always sensitive, but also need to be guided”
Virgos’ sensitivity is not about how many great things the other person has done for them, or how many life goals they have accomplished, but rather whether the other person can quickly notice when they are emotional.
In fact, you will find that many Virgos will not hold on to the general direction, because in most cases, Virgos will not let themselves fall into a situation where they are unreasonable. Therefore, the other party needs to quickly notice and guide them out of the sensitive point.
Their focus and attention to details are not unreasonable. Perhaps in the eyes of many people, these small points are actually unnecessary to explore, but the point of view of Virgo is that it is easy to be sensitive to bigger hidden dangers from small things and details.
So it is not unreasonable to pick on details at this time, but Virgo is trying to use this method to remind the other party to stop the loss in time to prevent the problem from getting bigger. So the other party needs to use “I understand” to guide Virgo to let go of this sensitivity.
“What is more important than making a promise is fulfilling it”
The longer you spend with Virgos, the more you will find that they are not the kind of people who like to make promises casually. Because in their subconscious, commitment is a very big and sacred word, so sacred that they dare not say the word “commitment” easily.
They have relatively high requirements for accomplishing things, because they are afraid that they may not be able to do it, or even do it perfectly, so it is always difficult for them to promise something to others with certainty.
Maybe for others, a promise is something that can be easily said in an instant, but for Virgos, a promise means fulfilling it.
So when it comes to relationships and friendships, Virgos actually pay a lot of attention to whether the person they like or their close friends can fulfill their promises. Because Virgos would rather you not say it or make a promise, but they also don’t want to make promises many times without fulfilling them. Many times, relationships are easily wasted in this way.
“Good things never come in threes”
As we mentioned earlier, in the Virgo’s subconscious, if a promise is not fulfilled many times, a good thing will easily turn into a bad thing. On the one hand, Virgo actually advocates minimalism in their hearts, because their talent lies in simplifying things. Although they care about details, they care more about how to make things efficient rather than spending multiple efforts to verify something that cannot be realized.
In fact, the closer you are to Virgos, the more you will find that their emotions are easily ignited. This is because they repeatedly fail to accomplish a thing, or they don’t take your repeated admonitions to heart.
Because once Virgos are serious about a relationship, whether it is love or friendship, they will want to take the initiative to help you solve problems. So in fact, when Virgos are willing to repeatedly emphasize and give advice on a matter, that is when they cherish and care about this person or this matter the most.
“Time should only be spent on valuable things, but if it’s you, then I’m willing to waste time”
