Pisces is the Tai Chi master among the twelve zodiac signs. They have maxed out their push and pull skills at the beginning, which makes them quite confusing when chatting.
Sometimes you think Pisces is in the atmosphere, and always feel that there are specious hints in Pisces’ words, and Pisces must have deep meaning in saying this. But Pisces may just have nothing to say, and don’t want to make the atmosphere awkward, so they use their soft body to quietly save the situation and want to make the situation more harmonious.
Sometimes you may think that Pisces is just chatting casually, trying to find something to say, but maybe this is a carefully created illusion, Pisces is using all their skills to guide and control the situation, so that you are led by them unconsciously and towards the ending they want.
Thanks to this deceptive nature, Pisces is also a hidden master of lip service. They may say “yes, yes, yes, good, good” and all kinds of nice and polite words, but they may have already used all kinds of swear words to complain in their heart.
Tai Chi, push and pull, and superficial agreement are all Pisces’ special skills to find their place in the group, and are Pisces’ way of getting along with others. There is no group that Pisces cannot get along with, unless Pisces does not want to.
They are good at this, but many times they have no choice. They may be afraid of embarrassment, or they may not want to fall out as they may have to meet again in the future.
Pisces act as “firefighters” sometimes even faster than they can think. As soon as they feel something is wrong with the situation, they will start talking and laughing, and start coordinating and handling the affairs.
In fact, they don’t need to say a lot of things, and they didn’t ruin the atmosphere. It has nothing to do with Pisces, but Pisces just stood up subconsciously. Some Pisces always regret it afterwards and feel ashamed of themselves for being too talkative.
Being sociable seems to be an innate instinct of Pisces. It not only provides them with a group of people to rely on and follow and a sense of security, but it also becomes a curse engraved in their blood.
Most Pisces are soft and boneless, born like a clean sheet of paper. Although they seem bland and boring compared to the various colors that come with other constellations, Pisces has an advantage that other constellations cannot match: they can be colored by the environment, and wherever they go, they will be the color of the environment.
This makes Pisces not like other zodiac signs that need to let their nature fight against the outside world in a new environment. Pisces can simply blend in with the crowd with their flexible attitude, coordinating conflicts among the crowd, acting as a peacemaker, saying some sweet words, and practicing Tai Chi.
However, when people of other zodiac signs encounter an inappropriate environment, their self may conflict and become inharmonious with the environment. Either their self-awareness will be worn down, or they will have to change the environment.
Pisces’ “smooth integration” means less difficulty in getting used to others, but this does not mean they do so voluntarily.
Their blank nature makes them subconsciously blend in when they meet a group, but as their experience increases, Pisces will gradually have their own preferences and likes and dislikes. This leads to the fact that when they face some new environments, they may not like them, but they still choose to activate their talents and skills to subconsciously blend in.
The pain began from then on.
Perhaps Pisces could be a little braver in saying no.
After all, your talent for coloring is to help you gradually understand what you don’t like, rather than to make you pretend to fit in and spend your days in entanglement and disguise.
Although pretending to obey but secretly disobeying is a way of adjustment, it is ultimately a positive way of obeying. No matter how rebellious one is in one’s heart, it is limited to some brain activities. To put it more radically, this is just a “spiritual victory” and it will not really liberate one’s body and mind. Pretending to obey but secretly disobeying may work for a while, but it will not last long.
Pisces, there is no need to force yourself to fit in some circles, and there is no need to always pursue being sociable. Although humans are social animals, and we are all duckweed seeking group identity, we can choose to ride the water and stay away from places we hate.
