Breaking up in a campus romance, we say, “It was the right person at the wrong time.” After entering the workforce and parting ways, we say, “If only we had met two years later.” Why do people who clearly love each other still end up separating? Perhaps we can catch a glimpse of the answer from a composite chart analysis.
After her breakup, Susu once came for a composite chart reading. At the time, she was close to getting engaged to her boyfriend, but their parents couldn’t reach an agreement, and they ultimately went their separate ways. When they parted, there were still feelings between them, and both were reluctant to let go. So Susu wanted to see if reconciliation was possible and where the real issues lay between them.
From the composite chart, it was evident that the woman’s Sun formed a harmonious aspect with the man’s Moon, creating a sense of resonance between them and enhancing the feeling of destiny in their relationship. Additionally, their Venus and Mars were in harmonious aspects, indicating strong sexual attraction and possessiveness toward each other. It’s safe to say the spark of love was intense, and the emotional connection was deep.
However, the man’s Sun and the woman’s Mars had a challenging aspect, which inevitably led to arguments and friction in their interactions. At the same time, the woman’s Saturn and the man’s Venus formed a difficult aspect, meaning real-world pressures would continuously wear down their relationship. No matter how much they loved each other, exhaustion was likely. Their Moon and Venus also lacked any aspects, suggesting their karmic connection was somewhat lacking.
Another point is that when a woman’s Saturn is in a man’s 5th house, it signifies obstacles in romance. The woman’s stress and pessimism can affect the man’s mindset, and her demands for practical conditions may also dampen his affection. So even though there is a spark of love between the two, it still can’t overcome the lack of deep connection.
A love that is deep but lacks a strong bond is one of the most frustrating experiences in relationships. Such relationships are often not recommended for reconciliation, as even if successful, it only prolongs the inevitable separation. A bond cannot be deepened simply through time spent together. Some may turn love into familial affection, while others may choose to settle to avoid further complications, but ultimately, if the connection isn’t strong enough, the love will never feel truly fulfilling or comfortable. Those who haven’t separated yet may choose to continue, but for those who have already parted, it’s better to let go of the pain and move on to find the right person.
Love cannot last on affection alone. When faced with the regret of loving someone but not being able to stay together, we can turn to the insights of compatibility analysis to help us continue our search for the right person.
