Many people have a special “friend” by their side. Not a lover, yet closer than a lover. This kind of feeling is a little less than love, but a little more than friendship. You might not think of them when nothing is going on, but when you’re sad or upset, you seek their comfort first. This kind of relationship is what is called a “backup” relationship.
Love and friendship are sometimes separated by a thin line. Since the other person hasn’t clearly rejected your feelings, is willing to trust you, and treats you as their closest friend outside of a lover, it means you still have a chance to become official. Instead of giving endlessly, it’s better to actively shed the backup role and become their openly acknowledged lover. In fact, being a backup doesn’t mean there’s no chance to become official; as long as you find the right approach, you have the opportunity to turn this special “friendship” into love.
Love has the power to make people like moths to a flame, willing to give everything, even willingly becoming a backup for someone. However, being a backup doesn’t mean you have to blindly give without expecting anything in return; you can cleverly use your strengths to turn a one-sided crush into mutual feelings. Different zodiac signs can leverage different advantages when it comes to turning a backup into the real deal. Now, let’s take a look at the 12 zodiac men’s strategies for becoming official from being a backup!
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