When looking for a love partner, earth signs tend to choose someone who is highly similar to themselves. Even in heterosexual relationships, they often fall in love with a gender-transformed version of themselves, or more accurately, a higher-level version of themselves.
Earth signs have their own framework and concepts for understanding the world. It is difficult for them to truly identify with someone who comes from a different world or has very different ideas from themselves. For partners who are completely different from themselves, earth signs may find it interesting at first because of the novelty, and will be attracted by the collision of different ideas, which will generate a strong desire to explore and conquer.
However, as time goes by, the novelty wears off and the differences between the two sides begin to become apparent. The earth sign will find it increasingly difficult to communicate with the other party, as if both parties are talking to a wall and cannot understand each other. Even trivial matters can lead to disputes. Such disputes are often not caused by malice, but because the two sides have fundamental differences in their views and ways of dealing with things.
In this case, if the partner tries to change the earth sign and make them act according to their wishes, it will often backfire. The earth sign will think that it is the existence of the partner and this attempt to change their behavior that has caused so many problems. They are not people who do not reflect on themselves. On the contrary, they review their lives and behaviors every day, trying to conform to the rules and rhythm of this world, and constantly correcting and improving themselves.
But in love, earth signs are unwilling to change their already formed framework and concepts for a certain person or a certain relationship. They think it is very hard and tiring to do so, and it is unnecessary. They believe that love should be about two similar people being together, understanding and supporting each other, rather than constantly changing themselves to cater to each other.
Earth signs want to find someone who shares similar ideas and concepts with them to spend their lives with. They don’t want to sacrifice their principles and bottom line for the sake of love, nor do they want to make too many concessions and compromises for the sake of the other person. For them, love should be two right people together to create a beautiful future.
Therefore, earth signs tend to find someone who is highly similar to them and go through every stage of life together. This preference for the same kind is a true reflection of the earth sign’s view of love.
