From a certain perspective, Libras are very indifferent. They control the temperature of their lives just right, and the secret lies in three words: non-attachment.
Only by not being attached can one be fearless
Some people have a stereotype about Libra, thinking that Libra is not firm enough, always wavering, and appearing indecisive.
In fact, they do think a lot in the early stages, but when it comes to the moment of decision, they are extremely firm and willing to go all out. Even though they know there will be too many uncertainties ahead, they still have a sober determination: I accept that my choice may bring risks, and I know that the result may not be what I want, but I still choose to experience this process.
Instead of worrying about the bad results that may or may not happen, it is better to grab the lucky bag in front of you and take care of the present. What if the lucky bag is empty? It doesn’t matter, because I have also fought for happiness for myself, and I have no regrets or regrets.
This is a very wise mentality of cherishing blessings, which allows many Libras to live a stable life and walk out their own flowery path step by step.
Not only do they dare to choose and to start, but when the time comes to end, Libra will also do so without dragging its feet or getting stuck in it.
Take love as an example: in the early days, others found fault with you in front of me and reminded me of various possible risks, which made me hesitate. But when I really decided to choose you, I would no longer care about those rumors, as long as you are equally firm in your choice of me.
And if one day our relationship reaches a point where it can no longer go on, no matter how much I have invested in this relationship before, I will calmly withdraw. I will talk about what needs to be talked about, and divide the interests that need to be divided clearly. I will not make a big fuss or tear our faces apart. This is the last bit of dignity I will give to this relationship, and it will also put a perfect end to the fate between you and me.
Not being obsessed with getting good results every time, not being obsessed with sunk costs, and not being obsessed with past friendships that have dissipated makes Libra feel courageous and unrestrained in every start and every turn.
Not being attached to others will make you last longer
Some people say that Libras cannot have true emotions and do not love deeply, otherwise why would they be so calm all the time, as if nothing can cause their emotions to fluctuate.
These are just on the surface. You may have overlooked how much effort Libra has put into softening and eliminating some of the conflicts around you, handling everything related to you in a comprehensive manner, and trying their best to be understanding and sensible in front of everyone so as not to embarrass you.
When Libra has unpleasant experiences or is misunderstood in a relationship, their heart will be in turmoil, but they will still choose to try their best to control their emotions and solve the problem in a calm and peaceful way, rather than arguing and attacking with fierce words, because Libra knows that impulsive words and actions due to out-of-control emotions will inevitably hurt the other party, thus making the situation worse.
Therefore, Libra will be tolerant and understanding with a calm attitude, digesting the resentment and grievances in their hearts, and leaving the rational and mature side to the other party. This is really not indifferent to feelings. Between two people, there must be one who can be more open-minded and take the initiative to relieve conflicts and reconcile the relationship, right? Because they care about you, Libra is willing to be that person.
It is precisely because Libra is not obsessed with deciding who is right and who is wrong with his lover, and is not obsessed with having the upper hand in the relationship, that he can withdraw from the whirlpool of emotions and see that there are more important things to protect besides these meaningless obsessions. Therefore, he is willing to take the initiative to reconcile conflicts and give the other party enough respect, so that the relationship can naturally be maintained for a longer time.
Conclusion
If you hold on too tightly, the sand in your hand will slip away faster. Instead of trying to control everything and worrying about gains and losses every day, it is better to be free and easy and trust that the universe will have a better plan.
Isn’t this also a kind of cherishment and love for life for Libra?
