Air signs are often labeled as the most difficult to capture, and many people think they are like the weather forecast, unpredictable. In fact, the key to capturing them is to remember four words: don’t take it too seriously.
Of course, this doesn’t mean you should play with feelings, but learn to get along with others in a relaxed and natural way.
Strong interaction and space are indispensable
It is difficult for Geminis to stop their minds. They may be thinking about work one second and jump to entertainment news the next. They either don’t open the chat window, or open several, and keep chatting with different people on different topics.
When you are with them, don’t be scared by their jumping conversations. Instead of worrying about why the communication is not coherent, it is better to take over the topic and create new collisions of ideas. Remember that Gemini’s famous “three-minute enthusiasm” is not a deduction in love, but a plus point that requires you to use your full creative reserves to deal with it.
When pursuing a Gemini, never ask: What happened to what you said last time, because it is very likely that they have forgotten it long ago.
The correct approach is: if he suddenly disappears during your online chat, don’t call him repeatedly, just send him a funny emoticon after a while; don’t always go out to eat or watch movies on a date, take him to talk shows or escape rooms where he can use his mouth and hands; learn to pick up on the jokes, for example, if he says “coffee is like quantum mechanics”, you can reply “Then milk tea is Schrödinger’s cat?”
Life doesn’t have that much meaning, just enjoy the present moment.
Tell him his inner decision
Libras always say this is fine and that is fine because they can find beauty in many things and that everything has its own advantages. So to some extent, they secretly hope that the other party can give a perfect answer that is unbiased and well-planned.
For example, when they say “I want to read at home and go hiking in the suburbs on the weekend”, maybe they are expecting you to say “Let’s go hiking in the morning and stay in a cafe in the afternoon”. The key to solving Libra’s decision-making difficulties is not to make decisions for them, but to let them decide naturally and speak out their subtext.
When pursuing a Libra, don’t ever say: “Whatever, you decide”, this is a fatal question. The correct approach is: always prepare A and B plans for a date: for example, “Japanese food or hot pot? After dinner, go to the park or see an exhibition?”; avoid pragmatism when giving gifts, and choose niche aromatherapy, designer jewelry, etc. that prioritize appearance; when they say “My ex is looking for me”, don’t panic, first calmly ask: “Do you need me to be your strategist or your trash can?”
When getting along with someone, don’t demand answers. First present the options you can offer, and then talk about other things.
Understand his abnormal habits
Aquarius is sometimes considered a master of abstraction, and it is normal for them to come up with some “inappropriate” ideas from time to time.
When Aquarius starts to share unrealistic plans with you, don’t pour cold water on them with realistic logic. Instead, try asking, “What special skills do you think we need to prepare to complete them?” Maybe you can make them laugh. If you can boldly throw out anti-mainstream views at this time and let them truly feel your participation, they may be excited about the collision of ideas with you.
When pursuing an Aquarius, don’t ever say: You’re not normal. The correct approach is: when he sends you a link to a weird news story, don’t just reply “haha”, but “I saw something even more weird last time…”; support his occasional sudden whims, such as watching the sunrise at 3 a.m., you just need to follow; secondly, keep a sense of mystery, such as when he asks “Who did you have a crush on when you were a child?”, you can reply “I’ll tell you if you guess right.”
If you think he is abnormal, then you can’t be too “normal”.
In short, grasp the wind sign, don’t check on them, don’t be clingy, don’t question their ideas, don’t force them to make decisions, and adapt quickly; when you are no longer obsessed with catching the wind, but become the air flow that dances with it, you will receive the admission ticket handed to you by the wind sign.
