The pragmatism and rationality of earth signs determine that they value stability, comfort and positive feedback in relationships. They don’t like to be consumed, and they can’t stand a relationship that makes them “unhappy” for a long time.
“Bad” in the eyes of earth signs = frustration of interests
Earth signs are very realistic in their judgment of relationships: Does this relationship make my life better? If the process of love is full of pain, suspicion, and repeated torture, they will quickly give up and even become hostile.
For them, love is not an excuse for self-torture, but a process of mutual growth and nourishment. If you keep being “bad” and make them feel that you are “playing” with them and hurting them, they will not fall deeper and deeper like water or fire signs, but will quickly wake up and deduct points from you in their hearts: “You are getting further and further away from my standard of true love.”
The sense of a good wife and a good husband is the eternal aesthetic of the earth sign
This is why “reliability” and “practicality” are always the core of the earth sign’s mate selection criteria. They prefer a partner who has a warm background and can integrate into life, rather than a “dangerous lover” full of drama.
The reason why the green tea type (for both men and women) can be popular with earth signs is because of their gentleness, thoughtfulness, and positive feedback, which make earth signs feel comfortable and worry-free. They do not need a passionate and sadomasochistic love, but prefer a healthy, stable, and sustainable relationship model.
Short-term stimulus vs. long-term value
Earth signs are not completely ignorant of the charm of “badness”, and occasional challenges and novelty can also make them feel interesting. However, this kind of relationship can only be a short-term seasoning and will never be classified as “true love” by them.
Those who have made earth signs love but not get it, or who have hurt them, may be unforgettable to them, but this “unforgettable” is often accompanied by pure hatred, rather than deep attachment. Unlike some constellations, they will not forget the people who hurt them, but will rationally review: “What did I lose in this relationship?” and then quickly withdraw.
