For Gemini, having an overly flexible mind can sometimes be tiring.
When Gemini is smart, they will think things through and see things clearly. When others are stubborn and insist on one thing, Gemini has already come up with thousands of solutions. All roads lead to Rome, and Gemini can make arrangements for you. Gemini’s many flexible speeches can also help others. When others feel that their road is blocked, Gemini can easily use their “golden sentences” to wake up the people around them.
But these are not things that Geminis do not do or think about, and just speak without thinking. Behind the appearance of Geminis, it actually means that they have a lot of thinking and choices. Sometimes Geminis’ brains are really like an AI, madly calculating, conceiving, and pondering, and then getting the best interpretation, showing it, expressing themselves, and helping others.
So sometimes you only see the quirky and creative side of Gemini, but in fact, Gemini may have made many considerations that others cannot see and expended a lot of energy.
So the inevitable problem for Gemini is thinking too much.
Especially young Geminis, it is easy to lose themselves in the vast amount of information they receive and sort out. They think left and right, and when they can’t figure it out, they get themselves into trouble again. They get entangled in all kinds of things that haven’t happened yet, and want to think of a foolproof plan, but they can’t get a clear result – because things haven’t happened yet, so naturally they don’t know how it will develop.
Moreover, Gemini not only thinks about things that haven’t happened yet, but also thinks about things that have happened before. They have to think about whether what they said is right, whether their behavior is good, what kind of impression they leave on others, and whether there is anything bad that they have not noticed.
This is just the part about thinking about yourself, not to mention thinking about others, thinking about the team, etc. Therefore, many Geminis are particularly prone to working hard and worrying too much, which is contrary to what they originally wanted to be.
If Gemini wants to truly relax and grow, what should they do?
In simple terms, it means giving up some useless thoughts, giving up some redundant ideas, and making your life simpler. In fact, when Gemini learns to let go, learn to be in a daze, learn to have a blank mind and not respond to some things, it can actually make Gemini live a more relaxed life.
For things that have passed, let them pass. For things that have not happened, let them happen. “Why bother so much, why think so much”, really give yourself some relaxation.
However, some Geminis may say that they can’t help thinking too much and can’t control themselves. Then they can only take it step by step. If I spent a long time thinking about something today, I will only spend two hours thinking about it next time. I thought too much this time, so next time I will think less and make a decision as soon as possible. Every time you make an effort to “think less”, you will see results step by step in the future.
It is enough to put the energy you use for thinking into what you want to do at the moment. You know, when Gemini puts all their energy into one thing, there is nothing they can’t do. The spirit of Gemini who never admits defeat is unmatched by anyone.
Therefore, if Geminis want to advance and grow better, the only way is to go from thinking a lot to stopping thinking, and then to distinguish which things are worth considering and which things are not worth their time.
When Gemini goes through such a journey of the heart, they will grow into the most relaxed and free person and will no longer feel tired.
