The twelve zodiac signs have their own requirements and special feelings about relationships, so when facing different objects, their attitudes and “difficulty of overcoming” will be different.
Today we will analyze for you one by one, why is it difficult to pursue the zodiac sign you like?
Capricorn’s relationships often require “cultivation” rather than excessive pursuit or pulling.
They will not be carried away by the other person’s temporary enthusiasm. The impulse and desire generated by hormones are the most dangerous and unreliable part of a relationship for them. When facing someone who wants to pursue them or who they are interested in, Capricorns will not only observe how the other person treats them and what they have done for them, but they will also take the time to observe the other person’s own conditions and character.
For example, the other person’s hardware conditions, whether he or she is motivated, and whether he or she can become a “comrade-in-arms” who can accompany you side by side; for example, the other person’s values and ways of dealing with problems, and whether he or she is a trustworthy person; for example, whether they can maintain a long-term relationship and keep their original intentions… For Capricorns, if they decide to choose someone, it must be because after mutual understanding, observation, getting along, and running-in, they find that this person is reliable and can be relied on, and they will slowly be moved.
This process requires time and patience, and there is a high probability that Capricorn will test the other person’s sincerity through “cold resistance”.
So if you think Capricorn is hard to pursue, on the one hand, it is because of the seriousness and realism they take relationships, which determines that they will not easily enter into an intimate relationship; on the other hand, it is very likely because you do not like them enough, concentrate on them, and have enough sense of responsibility. No matter how enthusiastic or attentive you are, it will make Capricorns close their hearts even more.
The process of Virgo understanding and observing a person is actually a process of continuous loss of points.
However, Virgos are not as strict and perfectionist as the outside world says. Their standard for a person is not that they must get 100 points, but they have their own passing line. And the most important factor in deciding whether to get along with the other person is this “passing line”.
You can have different personalities, habits, and cognitions from them, but if it comes to issues of principles and life goals, it will be difficult for Virgo to continue; you can have many friends, many different circles, and hobbies, but if you make Virgo lose their sense of security, or let Virgo’s living habits be passively broken, then you are the “risky” person to them; you can be less capable and ambitious, but if your lack of responsibility affects the rhythm of Virgo itself, then it will be difficult for you to become their “partner” on the road of life…
Therefore, if you find it difficult to pursue a Virgo, it is probably because there are “unignorable” gaps in your concepts, living habits, and thoughts, and it is difficult to be on the same wavelength, or your problems and risks make Virgos anxious and unable to make up their minds.
But these problems and difficulties are not unsolvable. Most people run into obstacles with Virgo because they do not take the ultimate action – proactive communication and responsibility.
Virgo actually knows that there is no perfectly compatible lover in the world. A lover who is willing to change and get closer to each other is the most rare.
The reason why Taurus is hard to pursue is simple – his heart is not warmed up yet.
Taurus is a zodiac sign that is very persistent in passive waiting. No matter whether they have feelings for a person or not, they hope that the other person can express their feelings with certainty and affirmation, so that Taurus will feel safe.
Therefore, for Taurus, it is difficult for them to actively and openly respond to the other party’s enthusiasm in the early stage. They are more likely to throw out an olive branch and then observe the other party’s feelings towards them, such as whether they really care about them and whether they are willing and able to make substantial contributions (money, time) for them.
Although Taurus may not say it, they will silently observe the other person’s actions. They will not let down their guard and accept the other person until they are sure that the other person really likes them and is not just playing around for fun, or they feel comfortable and protected with the other person.
Therefore, if you find it difficult to pursue a Taurus, it is most likely because they do not feel your determination and dedication – they do not like stingy people, whether it is money or love.
Understanding their sensitivity and anxiety and giving them enough time and care is the fastest way to warm them up.
That’s all for today’s sharing. See you next time~
