Changing one’s heart is an instinct, but responsibility is a choice. This series will share with you how to understand the changes in the mentality of the twelve zodiac signs in relationships.
From enthusiastic reporting to indifference
Sagittarius’s infidelity is very obvious.
When they like someone, the most prominent manifestation is that they are very “clingy”. They will unconsciously report everything about their lives to their partners, from what they eat and see to their life plans. In short, they will let their partners “participate” in their lives all the time.
But when Sagittarius changes their heart, the first measure they take is to try to make both of them become “independent people” again. They will no longer share everything about themselves with each other, and they will feel that everything about the other person has nothing to do with themselves, so they no longer care or ask. The two people’s respective space and time are divided very clearly, and even the circle of friends is divided very clearly.
If you ask Sagittarius about things at this time, they will be very resistant and even wary – because they have already put you out of their world.
From enthusiastic encouragement to cold water
When Aries changes his/her heart, the other person will feel the huge gap between them.
When Aries loves someone, they are the “God of Pure Love”, and the other person is the one they want to protect. Therefore, no matter what requests the other person makes at that time, Aries’ attitude is to encourage and support, and do everything possible to meet the other person’s wishes.
But when Aries’s thoughts and feelings are not on the other person, they will be too lazy to “spend time” and do not care about the other person’s mood and feelings. They will just say whatever they want and do whatever they want. Therefore, the unfaithful Aries will be seen as selfish, even mean, and like to throw cold water in the eyes of the other person. Moreover, there is no need to guess when Aries will change their mind. They will show it very obviously. They will not bother to continue the topic, and their perfunctory and impatient attitude has long explained everything in their hearts.
Knowing that it will hurt you but still doing it is the most ruthless side of Aries.
From appreciation to comparison
Leo’s change of heart is often very “hurtful to people’s self-esteem”.
When they like someone, their eyes will sparkle when they look at each other, and admiration and appreciation will be the main theme of their relationship. Therefore, Leos at this time will be very respectful and supportive of each other, and are also willing to affirm their partners.
But when Leo’s mentality changes, their appreciation for the other person will begin to turn into a kind of “dislike”, and there is a high probability that they will make comparisons due to external factors, and begin to compare the other person’s side that is not as good as themselves, or even not as good as others. At this time, Leo is picky, dissatisfied, and casual. They may not make a straightforward decision about the relationship, but they will easily output “negative energy” to the other person to vent their dissatisfaction and struggle.
Even if they are the one who is hurt, Leo’s self-esteem often prevents them from allowing themselves to escape first – the person who loves more will become hypocritical first.
In short, the change of heart of a fire sign is like the extinction of a bonfire. The enthusiasm and motivation disappear, leaving only the choking smell of smoke and a deserted background.
That’s all for today’s sharing. See you next time~
