The more easily you get hurt by love, the sooner you should experience the mixed feelings of love.
The more people focus on their career and money, and completely ignore emotional issues, the more likely they are to suffer emotional setbacks, and ultimately their emotions will drag down their money and career.
Since some of our personality traits are prone to causing emotional hurt, then this personality trait is destined to manifest itself in some aspect of life in the form of certain encounters, it’s just sooner or later.
Some people have already experienced the pain of a broken heart in high school, crying for days and nights without being able to sleep, but some people only realize in middle age that some love and hate can be so intense.
For example, people with an imbalanced Moon-Venus structure or a weak Moon-Venus position in their horoscopes are prone to setbacks in relationships. The imbalanced Moon-Venus structure refers to the square or opposition between the Moon and Venus. In relationships, there may be some contradictions between the type of “physiological liking” and the type of “comfortable long-term relationships”.
Weak Moon and Venus refers to the Moon and Venus being in a position where their energy is not fully utilized. For example, people with Moon in Scorpio or Capricorn and Venus in Aries, Virgo or Scorpio are prone to experiencing and giving love in a painful way. You can open your own horoscope to see if you have these characteristics.
Don’t listen to some people who say “Don’t fall in love to stay safe, just focus on career and make money”. Since there are hidden landmines in this area, it is better to step on it while you are young. Only after you know what it feels like and have experienced the real pain will you recognize human nature and yourself.
People are like this, they always have a sense of luck as long as they don’t get slapped in the face. They think that as long as they hide and escape, they can completely avoid danger and avoid all the bad luck in their relationships.
But instead of letting emotional disaster happen in middle age when your physical functions decline and your responsibilities to those around you increase, it is better to experience it early when you are a student or just entering society.
When you are young, you are strong and healthy, so even if you are cheated on or emotionally bullied, you can recover quickly. Many things can be cured by sleeping, drinking, or resting for a while. Even if you change your environment and start a new life, the cost will be much lower than when you are middle-aged.
As for being cheated of money, how much money did you have when you were young? It is worth it to be cheated of a small amount of money to buy a memory, at least you still have the energy to earn it back, at least it is less than some middle-aged people who are cheated of hundreds of thousands of houses and cars in emotional disputes nowadays, at least it is better than the property disputes involving two families.
Moreover, the idea that “staying away from love will keep you safe, and just focusing on your career and making money” is fundamentally wrong.
People who haven’t passed the emotional test are prone to lack of deep understanding of themselves. Intimate relationships can best reflect people’s inner fears and deficiencies. A person who is usually at ease with family and friendship may be unexpectedly fragile in relationships. Those things that can be disguised and laughed off to outsiders will eventually be inevitable when facing oneself.
And how can a person who lacks a deep understanding of himself achieve great results in the real world? If a person does not even know what he really wants, his core weaknesses and strengths, how can he “make money and build a career”?
Getting over the emotional barrier is actually integrated with making money and career. Only by getting over the emotional barrier and getting along with your own heart can you support yourself to go further. Reality is much more cruel than the tug-of-war in love. It is better to say that getting over the emotional barrier is actually a novice level of “making money and career”. Only after passing this level can you accept the more severe test of reality.
For those of you who have relationship problems, experience the ups and downs of relationships as soon as possible. Instead of lingering at the door of love, constantly immersing yourself in one ambiguous relationship after another and in secret love, it is better to walk through the door and take a real look.
Only after seeing it, you will know that you will not regret it. Only after experiencing it, you will know that there is something else that your soul longs for, and there are other things in life that are more worthy of our pursuit.
