The essence of emotions is not just about sweetness and romance, but also complexity and variability.
Just like the line from “Chungking Express”: “Sardines expire, canned meat expires, even cling film expires. I start to wonder, in this world, is there anything that doesn’t expire?”
Changing hearts is an instinct, while responsibility is a choice. This series will share with you how to understand the shifts in emotional attitudes among the twelve zodiac signs.
From Control to Letting Go
Scorpio’s love is closely tied to their “level of intensity.”
When they like someone, they find it hard to control their emotions. They want to immerse themselves in every aspect of the other person’s life and expect an equally passionate response in return. Thus, when deeply invested in a relationship, they feel both excitement and tension, struggling to maintain their balance.
So when Scorpios begin to lose interest, they start becoming very “casual.” Go out and have fun—no need to report back; do whatever you want—they won’t interfere. They don’t get upset if ignored, and they’re fine doing shared activities alone.
At this time, Scorpio becomes very “generous,” even unbothered by the presence of other potential romantic interests around you. They will gradually reduce your importance in their life, as well as their own significance in yours, and no longer erupt with emotions or tears over the slightest changes in you.
All the control and curiosity they once had will evolve into a carefree, self-centered lifestyle—long prepared for a life of solitude.
From fantasy to reality
Pisces’ love is, ultimately, their own romantic movie. They need another lead, but the storyline is often controlled by their own hands.
Thus, when they love someone, they are filled with expectations and fantasies for that person. They will also strive to create opportunities, building romantic interactions and moments together, openly expressing all their love and thoughts, hoping to create many shared, unforgettable memories between the two.
But when they lose faith and feelings for the other person, they will bring them back to reality. Forever? It’s all a lie. Marriage? How can it be achieved?
Perhaps they once felt lost and saddened by the gap between reality and ideals, but once they decide to leave or give up, they will only treat the relationship in the most negative and sober way—some words need not be said, some emotions need not be wasted. They will refuse the other person’s further intrusion into their life and spirit, including those romantic promises and actions—they no longer wish to fulfill them with you. They may even start lying and avoiding responsibilities and encounters related to you.
Having no plans for the future is, in fact, their ultimate plan for this relationship.
Shifting with self-will
For Cancer, a change of heart is a shift in life’s priorities.
Cancer’s care for a relationship is a deepening of “giving.” They are willing to take care of the other person, investing and agonizing over their needs and emotions—not just materially, but also emotionally and mentally.
However, when Cancer decides to give up on a person or a relationship, the biggest change is that they no longer feel sensitive or conflicted. They will clearly separate what belongs to them and what belongs to the other person, no longer taking on the other’s emotions or responsibilities. If something makes them unhappy, they will simply choose to distance themselves coldly or even initiate a silent treatment.
They will also no longer rely on the other person’s praise or approval to feel secure. Whether you’re present or not, whether you agree or disagree, whether you like something or not—these will no longer influence Cancer’s decisions.
Transitioning from focusing on what the other person wants to prioritizing their own needs and desires can indeed be a form of liberation.
In summary, the change of heart in water signs often comes with a touch of “unnecessary” maturity and understanding. When they decide to leave, their independence also serves as a disguise and protection.
That’s all for today’s sharing. See you next time~
