Aquarius’ emotional reactions are not consistent with others. Maybe Aquarius does not shed tears in a collective sad occasion, maybe Aquarius seems a little calm at a happy party, or maybe Aquarius does not show an obvious reaction after hearing some news, so he is labeled as “indifferent” or “cold-blooded”.
In fact, Aquarius is also emotional, but the points that touch him are a little different. When everyone reaches the peak of emotion, Aquarius will first use rational thinking to think about whether this matter is worth getting excited about? Is the current situation reasonable? Are everyone’s emotions inexplicable?
The emotions of ordinary people are easily affected by the atmosphere, which is what people often say, “The atmosphere is so good that I feel excited/uncomfortable.”
But Aquarius is not like that. It is difficult for them to be infected by the atmosphere and they are always dominated by rationality. Unless they think such emotions are reasonable and this matter really drives Aquarius’ emotions, they will become emotional.
Create a better self through imitation
We can imagine Aquarius as a piece of blank paper, which is naturally without a distinct personality or color. Whether this blank paper will be painted with colors or folded into patterns depends entirely on Aquarius’s acquired imitation.
Aquarius is good at imitating. When they encounter personality traits they like or qualities they admire, they will deliberately imitate them and imagine themselves becoming such a person. This is also one of the manifestations of Aquarius’s admiration for the strong.
Aquarius will imitate a lot, which will result in him still not having a distinct personality, but rather a bit messy, and the freshness of imitation is difficult to maintain.
But even if the imitation process is short, it can allow Aquarius to truly feel the pros and cons of being such a person, and experience some of the things they really lack and have. After refining and summarizing, Aquarius will eventually absorb the part that is most suitable for themselves and most conducive to their growth, and become a better self.
It can be said that Aquarius needs role models to grow, and once their personal realm and height are raised, it is difficult to lower them because they are always watching people who are stronger than themselves moving forward.
Don’t sacrifice yourself for others, live for yourself
Aquarius often seems out of place because they are too self-centered. Their thinking is different from that of the general public. The general public’s thinking is usually worldly-wise, for example, “Since the leader said so, I’ll just go along with it”, “He recommended this so enthusiastically, I’ll give it a try”, but Aquarius’s thinking is usually based on themselves. No matter how others praise A, if they like B, they will choose B. So what if the other person is a leader? Aquarius rarely lets their status suppress them.
He can’t understand why he should change his choice because of what others do, and he doesn’t like to sacrifice his own opportunities to take care of other people’s feelings. This is a very rational idea, but it is usually considered inhumane.
Refusing to cater to others is not Aquarius’s stubbornness, but a subconscious choice. This does not mean low emotional intelligence. As long as Aquarius wants to cater to others, they can do it very well. It’s just that in many cases Aquarius doesn’t think that this needs to be catered to, because they think that there will be a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand readers, and differences are very common.
Even if they are taught many times that “you should do this to be more likable”, Aquarius will always do what he wants. It’s not that they don’t understand the truth, but they are unwilling to change themselves to maintain these false friendships. In their hearts, “I want” is more important than anything else.
